Fear! fear is one of the reasons most people hesitate to go all out with their style. Fear to be bold, Fear to take a risk, fear to dare. Fear is bad, bad, bad!!!. It stops you from achieving your dreams, not just in the normal everyday sense, but also in the fashion world.
There are a lot of people out there who have great ideas, fantastic, bold and unique ideas, but they are too scared to embrace it. One question many ask is this : can I pull this outfit off? " or 'oh i'm not bold enough, surely I don't have the courage to wear this". All these thoughts are just fear creeping into your body, soul and mind, and the minute you let it get the best part of you,then you are absolutely finished. Self doubt is the beginning of failure! People need to have more confidence in themselves, when thoughts like this come to your head, all you need to do is ask yourself, those people that wore it and pulled it off, do they have two heads? they are human beings like you too, if they can do it, then you too my dear can do it a 100 times better. We need to understand that the world is our center stage because YOU are the star of your own life, so you need to go out there and take the stage, own it~! because you only live once!
There are lot of people who long, who wish and dream to wear a certain look, but they do not have enough confidence in them to do so,If you fancy a daring look, don't let the fear of pulling it off get to you! you can pull it off and you will pull it off, that I promise. Stop dreaming and do it!
Another thing people fail to forget is that style and confidence come hand in hand. Not only will you wear that daring look, you will also need to wear a whole lot of confidence, without confidence then your look is merely wasted. You need to show people that this is your stage, and you are hear to own it!
I have observed a few people saying that they do not want to overdress or look to dressy or anything of that sort. There is a difference between overdressing and looking good on the daily. Your style has to be part of you. If you only choose specific days to get all in, then you are merely a society fashionista. You need to love style, to embrace it, to make it a part of you. Do not be shy to showcase you r closet every single day on you because those fancy clothes in your closet will not wear itself. If you desire to want to go all out with your style on the daily, then please please please! by all means do not hesitate to do so. Its all about expressing yourself, making a statement and telling a story. do not let fear keep you from telling the story you want to tell, no one else can hold you back except yourself.
The pictures I put up are from some of the people I fanned on lookbook, I Fancy their style and thought i'd share.
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Overcoming fear doesn't warrant dressing overly strange. I'll get rocks thrown at me if I wear those...
ReplyDeleteu'l get rocks thrown at you, only if you want rocks to be thrown at u :)
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